Cocoa addresses pets that are always away.

“Dear Cocoa,

I am a very lonely feline.  My pets are great, when they are home; but they are rarely home.  They come home for a day or two and then, whoosh, they are gone again.  I spend days in this dark lonely box all alone.  Someone comes in once a day to feed me and change my water, but they aren’t anything like my pets and I don’t even get a cuddle or a kind word from them.  I have things to play with, but then you can only play with them for so long, you know?  What can I do to convince my pets to allow me a playmate or to stay home more?

Signed Lonely”

“Dear Lonely,

I have seen cases like this before.  Felines must have lots and lots of company in order to be content.  Here is a list of things that might help.  The more you do, the better your result.  First, that feeder has got to go.  When they come in, hide in a relatively easy for them to see spot and don’t move.  Look like you are half dead.  When they approach, just remain limp and maybe open an eye for a second.  This will tell your pets that you are depressed and need help. 

Next, when your pets are packing (you always know because those big bags come out) climb into everything.  Crawl under the clothes and play with the rolled socks, etc.  Really get into it (besides it’s fun).  When they come home, don’t leave them alone for a moment.  Stay under their feet, plead with them for attention, climb on their laps continuously, whatever they are doing, be there!  After a few episodes of this, your pets will realize that you miss them when they are gone much more than they thought.  They will either get you a friend, or they will stay home more.  Hope this helps.  Good Luck in your endeavors. Oh yes, almost forgot, make sure you bring all of your toys into their bedroom and leave them on their pillows for emphasis; and MISS the litterbox often.

Signed Cocoa.”

Animals of all sorts need to have companionship and lots of attention from their owners.  Try not to leave your pets alone too often.  If you must leave them, try placing them in a pet resort where the people will spend time with them and pamper them while you are away.  Or try a pet sitter.  The internet has many listing for that service, but sometimes a loving family member or friend is best.