I am a very lonely
feline. My pets are great, when they are
home; but they are rarely home. They come
home for a day or two and then, whoosh, they are gone again. I spend days in this dark lonely box all
alone. Someone comes in once a day to
feed me and change my water, but they aren’t anything like my pets and I don’t
even get a cuddle or a kind word from them.
I have things to play with, but then you can only play with them for so
long, you know? What can I do to convince my pets to allow me a playmate or to stay home
more?
Signed Lonely”
“Dear Lonely,
I have seen cases like this before. Felines must have lots and lots of company in
order to be content. Here is a list of
things that might help. The more you do,
the better your result. First, that
feeder has got to go. When they come in,
hide in a relatively easy for them to see spot and don’t move. Look like you are half dead. When they approach, just remain limp and maybe open an eye for a second. This will
tell your pets that you are depressed and need help.
Next, when your pets are packing (you always know
because those big bags come out) climb into everything. Crawl under the clothes and play with the
rolled socks, etc. Really get into it
(besides it’s fun). When they come home,
don’t leave them alone for a moment.
Stay under their feet, plead with them for attention, climb on their
laps continuously, whatever they are doing, be there! After a few episodes of this, your pets will
realize that you miss them when they are gone much more than they thought. They will either get you a friend, or they
will stay home more. Hope this
helps. Good Luck in your endeavors. Oh
yes, almost forgot, make sure you bring all of your toys into their bedroom and
leave them on their pillows for emphasis; and MISS the litterbox often.
Signed Cocoa.”
Animals of all sorts need to have companionship and lots of attention from their owners. Try not to leave your pets alone too often. If you must leave them, try placing them in a pet resort where the people will spend time with them and pamper them while you are away. Or try a pet sitter. The internet has many listing for that service, but sometimes a loving family member or friend is best.
